I'm so pissed! Why does he need to look at this? I consider it cheating! How do I get him not to do it? I cant trust him anymore..

asked 14 Nov '11, 05:31

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So you caught your man with some weird ass Porno?

Well you are obviously mad, as you should be but the brotha can't help it. Men are curious creatures and the porno industry has been around for a very long time preying on innocent souls like your man and it's not going away any time soon. And you can't understand why your man would look at it and you feel like he's cheating on you because he is looking at another woman naked. A man's penis is connected to his eyes where as a girl's version of porno is a more detailed romance novel. Fuck I had no idea the detailed filth that was in those novels until I picked one up that my girlfriend at the time was reading in college, I noticed she had this massive collection of this Fabio in the in breeze covered bullshit and then my natural curiousity caused me to take a peak. So I picked it up and I read something like this. An excerpt from House of Dark Delights by Louisa Burton.

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“Can you swallow a lob whole, like Lili?” “I…I can try.” “Do more than try, Charlotte,” he said as he pushed himself into her mouth, “and I just might let you come.” She proved herself an accomplished fellatrix, employing a firm, rhythmic suction without once scraping him with her teeth. The way she looked, bound to the stool in a posture of submission as she sucked him in and out of her mouth, only heightened the sensation. On the verge of spending all too soon, he pulled himself out and told her to lick just the tip, then the shaft and balls, lightly, teasingly, as he fought the urge to shoot, letting the pleasure mount higher, higher… “Take it in your mouth again,” he ordered her, in as calm and authoritative a voice as he could muster, under the circumstances. “Deep this time, as far as it will go.” She struggled to obey him, eyes watering as he shoved deeper, deeper… “You can do it,” he said. “Open your throat. That’s it….” He withdrew when she began to gag, waited a moment for her to regain her breath, then said, “Again—deeper,” and pushed himself in even farther before retreating. “Again. Take it all the way to the root. Good girl.” He fucked her mouth, thrusting faster and faster as the pleasure sizzled through his veins, surging in his loins like lava ready to spew. “I’m coming,” he rasped. “Swallow it down. All of it.” He gritted his teeth to keep from crying out as he exploded in her mouth, pumping it full as he hunched over her, clutching her head. Breathless and sated, he slid out from between her lips and tucked himself back into his drawers with unsteady fingers. Charlotte dropped her head, her back heaving as if she were struggling for air.

* What the fuck was that?! I asked my girlfriend? And I justified at that moment that women had their own version of porno in the written descriptive way! I asked do you imagine yourself in this situation? She answered yes! And we both laughed it off.

Now I'm not saying it's ok for your man to look at porno, but go back and look at what he was looking at and see whether it was artistic or not, hell you could open up a new chapter to your sex life by bringing in both of your fantasies into some weird ass role play. Now that's some Dr. Ruth shit and I'm not gonna go into the details of a qualified sex psychologist.

So men are visual creatures when it comes to this erotica shit and women appreciate to stimulate their minds so they don't understand men's obsessions with strip clubs porno ' low cut dress with cleavage, mini skirts with long legs.

A woman appreciates the story and detail and men appreciate just looking.

Your man is looking at the porn for the entertainment value, he doesn't actually want to get with these bimbo's with the massive implants and gaping grand canyons where their vagina's used to be. He wants to be with you and is probably looking at this porno like it's some kind of hobby of his. If it does bother you that much tell your man to stop looking at it and confront him on the issue and tell him it makes you feel like he's cheating on you. He'll quit his hobby just like he quit collecting baseball cards a long ass time ago.

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answered 15 Nov '11, 00:23

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I wholeheartedly disagree. There was no artistic appreciation going on here, and if he ever tried to pull that shit in order to justify watching it...it would make the situation exponentially worse. All men watch porn to look at the naked women and/or fantasize themselves in the scene. To be fair, it depends on the woman. I have no interest in reading trashy novels or imagining myself in any scene other than using my own imagination to create a realistic scene with my actual boyfriend. I would only expect the same from the man I love. A real man wouldnt need to turn to some synthetic crap with paid actors. If he has to watch some erotic crap on a screen, I should consider myself insulted.

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